Sexy and Fun relationships are what we all want and playing fun and exciting games to improve your relationship or even as an icebreaker for new relationships is the best way to do it! The game Never Have I Ever is one of my favorite drinking games, it's such a great party game and a fun icebreaker!

Trying the game in a dirty version is a fun and sexy way to spice up your relationship. We asked our Couply community how they spice up their sex life: 40% said sexy outfits, 37% said sex toys and 22% said sexy getaways.

Sexy outfits are the most common way to heat the bedroom back up, we all do it! We go out and buy the sexiest lingerie or buy a sexy costume to play to our partners' kinks, or we buy sex toys to try and find each other's kinks. These are all great ways to spice up your sex life, and Dirty Never Have I Ever is the next one you should try, it will get you and your partner to a deeper level of flirting and it's a fun light way to foreplay!

Why Should I Play Dirty Never Have I Ever?

Brings couples closer together

If you love games like Dirty Truth or Dare and Dirty Would you Rather then you will love this! Dirty Never Have I Ever is a very fun way to spice up your relationship, this game really heats up the room and is a fun type of foreplay to try! You also get to know each other deeper and find fun things out about each other that you wouldn't have known otherwise!

Flirting in your relationship is key! Whether you have been together for 10 years or 10 months, flirting with your partner reminds them you're attracted to them and keeps your spark alive! A study looked into how impactful flirting was and how verbal flirting and nonverbal flirting differ. We have all heard the saying: Its not what you say, its how you say it! In this case its exactly the same! Flirting is more than just the words we say, its the sexy eye contact, the tone our voice is in, our body language etc. Why don't you try playing this Dirty Never Have I Ever as a way of flirting with your partner!

The Benefits of Dirty Never Have I Ever for Your Relationship?

Communication: Dirty Never Have I Ever creates a space for open communication between you and your partner, this can lead to you having more in-depth conversations and having a better understanding of each other.

Vulnerability: Throughout this game you share personal experiences, this has a certain vulnerability and intimacy attached to it. Playing a game like this can strengthen your emotional connections.

Breaking the Ice: For new relationships this game is a great way to help break the ice and create a more calm and comfortable environment between you after you get to know eachother better in a fun way!

Building trust: Playing this game, you are open and honest with your partner about experiences, things you like, don't like etc. Being open about these experiences can build trust in your relationship.

Sparking Romance: Playing this game really sparks the romance in your relationship, sharing such intimate and fun stories has a sexy undertone that really heats things up!

How to Play Dirty Never Have I Ever?

It's very simple and super easy! You start with you and your partner with a drink each (or a shot!) and one person starts by making a statement about something they have or haven't done and you each drink if you have or don't if you haven't. Then the next person asks a question and so on until the person who has drunk the most (And has done the most!) loses and the other person wins!

If you really want to take things to another level of heat you can try it in a different variation: Strip Poker is a super fun way to make this game extra hot! Each time you take a drink you also take off a piece of clothing and the first person to get their partner naked wins!

69 Dirty Never Have I Ever Questions:

These questions will heat up your relationship

1. Never have I ever skinny-dipped.

2. Never have I ever had a one-night stand.

3. Never have I ever sexted someone.

4. Never have I ever sent a nude.

5. Never have I ever sent a sexy text or sexy pic to the wrong person.

6. Never have I ever kissed someone of the same gender.

7. Never have I ever role-played in the bedroom.

8. Never have I ever used a sex toy.

9. Never have I ever had a threesome.

10. Never have I ever had a sex dream about someone I shouldn't have.

11. Never have I ever had sex in the car.

12. Never have I ever had a friend with benefits.

13. Never have I ever been walked in on during sex.

14. Never have I ever had sex in public.

15. Never have I ever faked an orgasm.

16. Never have I ever had or given a lap dance.

17. Never have I ever slept with someone on the first date.

18. Never have I ever used handcuffs in the bedroom.

19. Never have I ever gotten hot with someone in a hot tub.

20. Never have I ever been to a lingerie/naked party.

21. Never have I ever hooked up with a boss or supervisor.

22. Never have I ever been part of the mile high club.

23. Never have I ever had sex in a public bathroom.

24. Never have I ever used food in the bedroom.

25. Never have I ever gone skinny dipping with a group.

26. Never have I ever gotten hot with someone in a pool.

27. Never have I ever fantasized about a school teacher.

28. Never have I ever kissed someone on New Years Eve.

29. Never have I ever gotten hot with someone on a balcony.

30. Never have I ever made an at home porno.

31. Never have I ever hooked up with someone at a party.

32. Never have I ever had sex on a boat.

33. Never have I ever booked a hotel room just to go and have sex.

34. Never have I ever hooked up with a coworker.

35. Never have I ever gotten hot with someone in a sauna.

36. Never have I ever hooked up with someone in a photo booth.

37. Never have I ever had phone or facetime sex.

38. Never have I ever tried a sensual massage with someone.

39. Never have I ever sent someone a naked pic while in company.

40. Never have I ever used a blindfold during intimate moments.

41. Never have I ever written or received a sexy love letter.

42. Never have I ever used ice cubes during sex.

43. Never have I ever watched porn with someone.

44. Never have I ever given someone a sexy dance.

45. Never have I ever had sex more than 3 times in one night.

46. Never have I ever had sex in the shower.

47. Never have I ever gotten intimate with someone in front of a mirror.

48. Never have I ever tried flavored massage oil.

49. Never have I ever played strip poker.

50. Never have I ever tried aphrodisiac foods with someone.

51. Never have I ever tried a flavored lubricant.

52. Never have I ever had sex on the floor.

53. Never have I ever gotten intimate in front of a fireplace.

54. Never have I ever made a sex spotify playlist.

55. Never have I ever tried a new sex position suggested by someone else.

56. Never have I ever tried a new intimate activity that I saw in a movie.

57. Never have I ever written or received a sexy poem.

58. Never have I ever slept naked.

59. Never have I ever flashed someone.

60. Never have I ever been to a nude beach.

61. Never have I ever been to an adult store.

62. Never have i ever played dirty truth or dare

63. Never have I ever taken nudes in the shower.

64. Never have I ever been to a strip club.

65. Never have I ever had sex in someone else's bed.

66. Never have I ever done a nude streak in public.

67. Never have I ever had sex with someone who's name I did not know.

68. Never have I ever sucked my partners toes.

69. Never have I ever acted out my sex fantasy.

19 Extremely Dirty Never Have I Ever Questions:

If the above questions are too tame and you really want to find out the dirtiest details about your partner then try these!

  1. Never have I ever had anal sex.
  2. Never have I ever had a facial.
  3. Never have I ever stuck my finger in someone's ass.
  4. Never have I ever had period sex.
  5. Never have I ever tried oral sex while driving.
  6. Never have I ever tried anilingus.
  7. Never have I ever tried 69ing someone.
  8. Never have I ever had sex in front of someone else.
  9. Never have I ever had sex with someone over 10 years older than me.
  10. Never have I ever woken someone else because I was too loud during sex.
  11. Never have I ever caught an STD.
  12. Never have I ever been paid for sex.
  13. Never have I ever paid for sex.
  14. Never have I ever masterbated 3 times in one day.
  15. Never have I ever given or received a pearl necklace.
  16. Never have I ever had a wet dream
  17. Never have I ever had sex with someone who was married.
  18. Never have I ever used a household item as a sex toy.
  19. Never have I ever indulged in some BDSM

About the Author

Tegan Confield

Tegan Confield is a student at the University of Stirling studying Psychology. Tegan is doing work experience creating content for Couply, she loves writing articles and has a passion for relationship Psychology.

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