Hey there! If you're reading this, chances are you and your partner are not afraid to embrace your freaky sides in the bedroom.
Being kinky is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, it can be a source of great pleasure and fulfillment.
But it's not always easy to be open about your kinks, especially in a world that often stigmatizes them.
Whether you're into role-play, sadism/masochism, group sex or any other kink, it's amazing that you're comfortable enough with each other to explore your desires and bring them to life.
An open and adventurous sex life can bring a lot of benefits to your overall relationship. Here are a few:
- Increased intimacy: When you're open and honest with your partner about your sexual desires, it can lead to a deeper level of intimacy. You'll feel more comfortable talking about sex and exploring each other's bodies.
- Improved communication: Talking about sex can be difficult, but it's important to be able to communicate openly with your partner about your needs and desires. This can help to improve communication in other areas of your relationship as well.
- Greater trust: When you trust your partner to be open and honest with you about their sexual desires, it can lead to a stronger sense of trust. You'll feel more secure in your relationship and less likely to worry about being cheated on.
- More excitement: Trying new things in the bedroom can add excitement and novelty to your relationship. It can also help you to reconnect with your partner and rediscover the spark that you felt when you first met.
- Reduced stress: Sex is a great way to relieve stress and tension. When you're feeling stressed, having sex can help you to relax and de-stress.
If you're thinking about opening up your relationship, it's important to talk to your partner about it first. Make sure that you're both on the same page and that you're comfortable with the idea. It's also important to set some ground rules, such as what activities are off-limits and how you will communicate with each other.
If you're both willing to put in the effort, an open and adventurous sex life can be a great way to improve your relationship. It can help you to connect with each other on a deeper level, improve communication, and build trust. It can also add excitement and novelty to your relationship and reduce stress.
Having an open and adventurous sexual relationship can bring a lot of benefits to your overall relationship. By exploring new fantasies, you not only deepen your connection and intimacy but also bring a new level of excitement and fun to your sex life.
However, it's important to remember that not everyone may be comfortable with your level of kink. And that's okay! It's important to respect your partner's boundaries and not force your kinks onto them. Communication is key, especially when it comes to kink play. Make sure to discuss your limits and boundaries before jumping into any new play, and always prioritize each other's comfort and safety. Be honest with each other about what you want and what you're willing to try. You can both start slow and be patient. Don't try to do too much too soon. Start with small steps, such as talking about sex more openly or trying new positions.
Another important aspect of kink play is consent. It's crucial to make sure both you and your partner are 100% willing and enthusiastic about any sexual activity, whether it's a new kink or a staple in your repertoire. Never push someone into doing something they're not comfortable with, and always respect each other's "no".
Most importantly, have fun! Sex should be enjoyable, so make sure you're both having fun.
So, to you and your partner, our cheeky little freaks, keep exploring and pushing each other's envelopes in the bedroom. Remember to communicate openly, prioritize each other's comfort and pleasure, and always practice safe and consensual kink play. Let your wild side run free!
Embrace and explore your sexuality and kinky side with your partner by taking the "Sensual Secrets" and "Getting Kinky" courses on the Couply app! Couply also offers a variety of relationship questions, couple's quizzes, expert articles, and even games that you and your partner can enjoy together.
References:
- https://www.gottman.com/blog/how-to-feel-comfortable-expressing-sexual-desires-with-your-partner/
- https://www.scmp.com/lifestyle/family-relationships/article/3008684/how-explore-sexual-fantasies-and-desires-without
- https://daveasprey.com/how-to-share-sexual-desires-with-your-partner/
- https://www.gstherapycenter.com/blog/2018/10/12/what-kink-can-teach-us-about-consent
- https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2019/06/01/728398532/how-to-talk-about-sex-and-consent-4-lessons-from-the-kink-community
