How to Navigate You and your Partner's Love Language 

Ever wonder why sometimes you and your partner seem to not be on the right foot? Maybe it’s because you and your partner need a little navigation on how to express your love language and understand which one your partner has!

So what is Love Language? It’s commonly described as a way of understanding how to give and receive love.

There are 5 love languages according to Gary Chapman: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Physical touch, and Quality time.

Now some aren’t what they seem to be! Physical touch isn’t just about hugging your partner and receiving gifts isn’t about buying an ample amount of gifts to make your partner feel better. There’s a little more to it. Here’s a quick chart to give you an idea about each one! 

Still confused about love languages? Well, here are some examples of each one below!

Physical Touch

  • Greet your partner with a warm embrace.

  • Plant a gentle kiss on your partner's cheek, forehead, or lips.

  • Snuggle up with your partner on the couch or in bed.

  • Treat your partner to a relaxing massage.

  • Reach out and hold your partner's hand as you stroll together.

Quality Time

  • Enjoy quality time with your partner by going on romantic dates.

  • Explore the outdoors together by taking leisurely walks.

  • Get cozy on the couch and enjoy a movie or TV show together.

  • Strengthen your bond by playing games together.

  • Engage in meaningful conversations without any distractions.

  • Prioritize spending time with each other every day.

Receiving Gifts

  • Surprise your partner with meaningful gifts to celebrate special moments like birthdays, anniversaries, and holidays.

  • Show your partner you care by giving them personalized gifts that cater to their interests.

  • Put effort into creating homemade gifts like baked goods or crafts to make your partner feel special.

  • Don't wait for a special occasion, surprise your partner with a thoughtful gift just because.

  • Allow your partner the freedom to choose their own gift to ensure they get something they truly love.

Acts of Service 

  • Cook a meal for your partner.

  • Handle errands for your partner, such as grocery shopping or picking up their dry cleaning.

  • Help with any home repairs or projects your partner needs help with.

  • Support your partner with their work or other duties.

  • Delight your partner with a thoughtful surprise, without them having to ask for it.

Words of Affirmation

  • Tell your partner that you love them every day.

  • Appreciate your partner's looks, character, and achievements.

  • Acknowledge and appreciate your partner's impact on your life.

  • Surprise with heartfelt love notes or letters.

  • Brighten their day with positive sticky notes.

Now remember, knowing you and your partner’s love language is important, it is not the full scope of your and your partner’s relationship and intimacy. However, it is definitely a booster in any relationship!


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